I use Facebook with purpose. For me, it’s not a place to argue or share hot takes. It’s a space to help people (1) think more deeply, (2) be spiritually encouraged, and (3) enjoy a good laugh. These goals shape almost everything I post.
I’m comfortable sharing ideas that prompt us to think, “Hmm, I hadn’t considered that” or “I hadn’t viewed it that way.” Social media isn’t the best platform for serious disagreements, but it can spark meaningful reflection. I don’t enjoy back-and-forth arguments in the comments; they rarely bring any light. So, I aim to post content that opens windows instead of slamming doors—asking questions, broadening perspectives, and inviting people to see a wider view. Before posting, I often ask myself, “Will this help someone think more clearly or generously? Is this content adding light, or just heat? Could a thoughtful person with a different view still feel respected here?”
I also share spiritual reflections meant to uplift others. Not every post needs to be a sermon, but I want my feed to be a space where people will be reminded about what is true and good—a verse, a brief meditation, or a practical word of hope. When you scroll past my page, I want you to feel a little more spiritually grounded than when you arrived.
I’m a serious person, but I also enjoy laughing, so I often post things that make me laugh. Laughter breaks tension, fosters connection, reminds us not to take ourselves too seriously, and makes us feel better. The internet offers plenty of reasons to be anxious or angry; I like to provide reasons to smile. When I travel, people often mention the memes I post, which tells me I’m not alone. Apparently, many of us welcome an honest laugh each day.
On my feed, you’ll find challenging posts that invite deeper thinking without (intentionally) stirring conflict; spiritual encouragement focused on hope, integrity, and faith; and daily humor—usually a meme or a lighthearted joke that made me laugh out loud. That’s it. No complicated plan. Just a steady stream aimed at lifting, not dragging; expanding, not inflaming; challenging and growing, not defeating and controlling. I hope you find my posts helpful. If you do, don’t be shy about engaging and sharing.
Given my use of Facebook, I don’t tolerate arguing. Disagreement is okay, but if the conversation turns combative, I step away from the thread (on others’ pages) or delete comments (on my page). I assume good intent. Most people are doing their best with what they know. I expect kindness and brevity. A kind word beats a paragraph of snark. I sometimes delete snarky comments and suggest that commenters share paragraphs on their own pages. I support thoughtful reflection. It’s wonderful when well-meaning people who disagree kindly ask, “Have you considered…?” instead of saying, “You’re wrong.”
My goal isn’t to be the loudest voice online. It’s to be a trustworthy presence—someone who helps others think more broadly, find courage for the day, and remember that joy is allowed. In fact, it’s encouraged on my page.